Wednesday, February 11, 2009

For What It's Worth- Buffalo Springfield 1967

"You're carrying high, so your baby will be born on a Tuesday and have freckles..."

Mamaw Tony C to pregnant Mrs. Tony C in 2007

I love my grandmother. She will be 95 glorious years old this June...'Lord willin.' Being from the South, she is affectionately referred to as Mamaw. Now that's a funny name to people not from here, but no more peculiar than 'Meme' or 'Nene' is to most Southerners. She's part of the greatest generation in modern history. Lived through wars, a global depression and a standard of living people today would declare third world.

Many of the things I've learned in my life can be directly attributed to my grandmother, however, she has also been the source of much misinformation. Allow me to explain...

From an early age, I listened to her counsel and took it in without contentions.

'Don't eat those watermelon seeds, you'll grow one in your stomach.'

'Don't cross your eyes! They'll get stuck like that.'

'You get back inside with that wet hair! You'll catch your death!'

How could anyone argue with such sound advise. Better could anyone argue with her... about anything. My grandmother, even to this day, has the innate aptitude for hearing what she wants, when she wants...and only when it agrees with her opinion on the matter.

I love my grandmother. I have many fond memories of growing up in the house right next to her. As a matter of fact, here's one:

While working in the little garden behind our house one teen-aged summer day, my focus was interrupted by the sound of my grandmother shouting scripture...or pieces and blurbs of scripture, in a rather angered fashion. Naturally, I was perplexed and investigated. What I witnessed was a scene torn directly from the comic strip BC, as my grandmother repeatedly whacked a helpless, misguided black snake with a baseball bat we had left in her yard from a Sunday's game.

'Get thee'...whack...'behind me'...whack... 'Satan! I will'...whack...'bruise'...whack...'thy head'...whack

Rushing down to her, I somehow managed to get the bat away and avoid the receiving end of her wrathful swing. What I saw next was a sight that will never leave me...ever. That poor black snake of about 4 feet had been beaten so maliciously that the upper third of its body, including the head, look like a custom designed dinner plate you would find at the home of someone like Ozzie Osbourne or Marilyn Manson.

'You okay?'
'Take that snake and hang it on the fence over yonder...'
'Why would I do that?'
'Just do it! It will keep the other snakes away!'
'Mamaw...where'd you hear that?'
'It's in the Bible! Now do it!'
I bent over to pick up the poor flattened snake...'Don't touch that snake!'
'But you just told me...'
'That snake can still bite you until after sunrise tomorrow...'
'Mamaw, that snake ain't ever biting anything...'
'Don't tell's in the Bible.'

Now, we all know there isn't a passage in the Bible about makeshift snake wards or afterlife snake biting, and through the years, I've mentally filed those along with her other Bible misquotes like 'Cleanliness is next to Godliness' and 'To thine ownself be true' (which I believe actually comes from an episode of Gilligan's Island). I would never call my beloved grandmother out on any of would serve no useful purpose.

I believe (or hope) God overlooks such trivially random matters too. In fact, we really don't give Him enough of the credit He deserves...and He deserves it all. Penicillin isn't mentioned in the Bible, yet God gave Alexander Fleming the talent to develop the wonder drug. Now, I'm by no means advocating or even suggesting that matters of a vial, vulgar origin should be attributed to God Almighty, but proverbs or axioms that promote stronger moral value do have purpose. We just have to be cautious and never cross an authoritative line that conflicts with God's actual word.

Okay, snake related issues don't really fall in the 'stronger moral values' or 'changing mankind for the better' categories...but I do love my grandmother.


David said...

Me and St Patrick, we're going to Washington DC to hang a few snakes on the fence.

That snake can still bite you until after sunrise tomorrow...

It'll strengthen my moral values.

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AtlantaMama said...

i really enjoyed this sweet post about mamaw.... and i also have to say: that is the longest comment ANYONE has ever posted... Anonymous had a lot to say!

Pasadena Closet Conservative said...

You are blessed.

Burkulater said...

Yesterday, my gma told me I was going to catch pneumonia for going outside without my start the van.
Gotta love 'em.

Matt @ The Church of No People said...

That's an awesome story! Who can argue when it's in the Bible!

Incidentally, my grandfather had an uncanny talent for selective hearing. He was probably 80% deaf. But there were times when we caught him faking not being able to hear us. It was usually when we were telling him something he didn't want to hear.

Amy said...

Thank you for stopping by my blog and for the kind words. I have been neglecting it lately. I am headed out the door right now but I will be back to do some reading here! Your blog looks very interesting!

Anonymous said...

That is a pretty great story, and I would love to meet your grandma! Lol. It sounds alot like what my great-grandmother, "Mamaw Fields", would say and do. She was a Baptist preacher for many, many years...and the stories about things she said and did would keep anyone entertained for hours.
Great blog, Tony! =)

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Matt @ The Church of No People said...

In response to your comment today - 3 dates in 12 hours? Now you're my new hero!

Lula! said...

OK, this is now my favorite post of yours. I love Mamaws. I love the Bible. I love this post!

~ Lori ~ said...

Love it!! Your Mamaw was right, it will keep the other snakes do I know? My Grandma told me the same thing!!
The world truly needs a Grandma to run this country, I think we would ALL sit up a little straighter.

Anonymous said...

Love the mamaw story. I heard my mamaw say some of the same things. Enjoyed! Keep writing!